Future Partner

Hey, this might be you. So you can take this as a headup on getting to know the sort of woman you are dealing with or… a reference before you run further away from me saving your insecure masculinity. 😛 I am an ordinary woman doing extraordinary stuff in my life. I do something that…

25 Marriage Rule of Thumb

Edited on December 28th, 2017. Over the years, I have been surrounded by people whose cohabitation and or marriage life don’t work as smooth as they planned before (well.. nobody plans for chaos, isn’t it?) I figured, it’s happening everywhere, thus, this note might be useful for some of you. Marriage is not for everyone, some…

You Know Nothing: Death

In the past three weeks, Callum, Simon’s youngest son has been mentioning death more than 3 times to me including today. He said “you die” then I replied “not today” or “I die when I die”. I guess, he is in this phase where he is curious about the concept of death. I don’t want…

You Know Nothing: Friendship

They say, the older we get, the harder we form a friendship with new people. Well, not in my case. In my early age, I never had a group of special people I belong to. When some people have best friends since they were kids, I don’t. Mostly because I no longer able to get…

I Call Her, Mother.

The first time I saw the relationship between Claire Underwood and her mother, I felt relieved. She is a fictional character but that kind of relationship between mother and daughter, it does exist. I have that kind of relationship with my mother. Where our functions for each other are only practical. When I don’t earn…